How many have you loved?

Why waste his life not loving.

When I woke up this morning, I decided to search and watch all the videos I have saved in my files for the past years. I enjoyed listening (and watching) those music videos. But when I saw its name, I played it and there it goes. This video had inspired me many times, and it never failed me to be inspired more. Honestly, I cried many times on this video, realizing that there are so many things you will be wasting if you never love. I’m not a dumb person or someone who don’t have any feelings whatsoever. Love is why we live. It gives your life color and meaning. It would give you peace of mind knowing that somehow, someone is caring for you, will protect you, and will be with you always. Happiness it is. I hope everyone in this world would love.

Let me quote some of the things I love about this video. Worth to be shared.

“…Death was not what saddened her the most. But the fact that she never really felt like she had fallen in love. She weren’t get the half of those emotions—good and bad—of being hurt and of being held…

…Teaching me to see that one of the greatest gifts we have of being alive is the ability to give, receive, and even lose love. There are so many like her whose lives end before having any of these experiences. What a waste if we don’t strive to love in our lives. She made me understand why. Why waste his life not loving.”

How would you describe the one you love?

The guy described the girl he love as all those girls he loved before combined into one. He’s been very honest to confess his feelings on each girls he loved before. But what I love about it was how he relate each characteristics of those girls to her—as his sixth, not one of them, but all of them. Let me quote him:

“You are WHO I love—the one in the pedestal, the fantasy, the make-believe things that are actually true.”

“You are WHAT I love—the depth, the inside jokes, the bestfriend…”

“You are WHEN I love—a new history is being started with you. We are the young lovers our older selves will someday reminisce about.”

“You are WHERE I love—because I go anywhere just to be with you.”

“You are WHY I love—because before you I didn’t truly understand what I was looking for. And now that we found each other, you’ve given my past and future meaning.”

What have I realized about myself?

Loving should be unconditional. That is should be. This is also reflected in the animated movie “Up” where even death hadn’t been the lead character’s reason to not grant his wife’s dream, with the help of a boy scout. Let me quote a Bible verse about love, which was also featured in the Destiny’s Child album, Independent Women.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (NIV)

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Here is the video I am telling you. From WongFu Productions. The Last.

The Last–WongFu Productions. © WongFu Productions